Got Scammed for 45k on Tinder: A Cautionary Tale
Online dating can be a fun way to meet new people, but it also comes with risks. One unfortunate incident involved a Tinder user who ended up paying a hefty bill after a date. Here’s a detailed account of what happened and tips on how to avoid such scams.
The Incident
The Setup
A Tinder user from Delhi matched with a woman who claimed to be a makeup artist from Ghaziabad. They decided to meet at a mall near her house in Raj Nagar. Despite some red flags, such as being unmatched on Tinder and being taken to a different, rundown mall, he proceeded with the date.
The Scam
At the pub, the woman ordered several drinks and insisted on burning expensive indoor firecrackers. When the bill came, it totaled 45k INR, with 30k INR attributed to the firecrackers. The woman refused to split the bill, and the pub staff were uncooperative.
Resolution
The man managed to reduce the bill to 25k INR after involving friends but left feeling scammed. It became evident that the woman was likely in cahoots with the pub to scam unsuspecting dates.
How to Avoid Dating Scams
Verify Identities
- Video Call: Before meeting in person, have a video call to confirm the person’s identity.
- Social Media: Check their social media profiles for consistency and authenticity.
Choose Safe Locations
- Public Places: Meet in well-known, reputable public places.
- Familiar Areas: Prefer areas you are familiar with to avoid being led to suspicious locations.
Watch for Red Flags
- Too Good to Be True: Be cautious if the person seems too eager or the situation feels off.
- Unusual Requests: Decline any unusual or extravagant requests, such as buying expensive items or participating in risky activities.
Payment Precautions
- Discuss Payment: Discuss payment expectations beforehand.
- Carry Limited Cash: Avoid carrying large amounts of cash and use cards that can be easily reported if lost or stolen.
Trust Your Instincts
- Feel Comfortable: If you feel uncomfortable or sense danger, trust your instincts and leave immediately.
Conclusion
Online dating scams can happen to anyone, but staying vigilant and following these tips can help you avoid falling victim. For more safety tips and personal stories, visit GuideGig.
